I was thinking about comfort zones. you know we all have them and everyone has a different area that's best for them. I find it very interesting how some people will go to great links to stay in their comfort zones. They will even cause hurt feelings, and even fighting with another person, someone they love just to be able to stay in their zone. Its that uncomfortable for them. I believe they feel not in control. They have let someone else be in control and that is just too scary. They feel they have lost their edge or they no longer have that identity that sets them apart. Now they are part of a group and the scary thing for them is _ What if someone ask them a question or asked them to do something. If they are not in their zone they don't know how to function. Interesting !? I think yes. Tootles
